Ok for the last 2days eather by infulence or by encounters of my own i have been thinking about relationships, as in being in love or haveing a girl friend... For exsample their is a girl i know .. lets call her mis X well she has a b/f that she cares about and he cares about her, but mis X also is atractid to another man. now the other day she was asking me what she should do and the guy shes atractid to has a girl of his own to, so basicly 2 people are attracted to eachother but they are both in a relationship that are conmfterble but have doubts about the people they are with. Ok i understand that your attractid to some one else its only natural, but that dusent mean leave what you have, people think thats what you should do, or maybe it means your not fulfilld with what you have? I don't know what the right thing to do would be. I do know how i would want to be treated and how i would treat my girl.. I would show her how to be loved, take her out to dinner, or just stay home and watch a move just the two of us, make dinner at home, cuddle hold eachother closely, kiss and get the feeling of caring for the person. Afection is the one thig i want the most. Its funny how your friends tell you to go and screw some girl you never met, but when they are in a relationship and you tell them that there getting sex when there partner comes over they get insulted... why ? Is it because now they care about that person, and its just not some one night stand? Heres another one i always wonder about. Why is it that a person stays in a relationship when it is abusive. For example, they cheat on you; or they verbaly abuse of you, just plan treat you like sh*t. Why ? What is it that keeps them going back to that person, are they stupid ? Maybe they don't know what it is to be with another person that treats them good. Maybe they are afrade that they wont find another person? Maybe they are masokist and like it... who knows what it is, I do hope when the time comes i can keep that person and show that girl that i care for her and maybe she will care for me the same way too.
LILMAN X
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